Sunday, July 3, 2011

Casey, Caylee, Chaotic Family Life Neither Signed Up For

Whatever happened to Caylee, that beautiful little baby girl, precious as can be, happened at the hands of her psychologically and emotionally damaged mother.  It may have been accidental ; Casey wanted to sedate her little girl heavily so she wouldn't make a peep while mom went out partying.. Mom is only 22 or so, and still has a full couple of decades left to her youth.

Casey comes home or back to her car and finds Caylee not breathing?  Dead?! OMG! What to do when you've got Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( lies, deceit, denial, an aversion to openness and truth telling..the list goes on with this disorder of degee) and Borderline Personality Disorder, an affliction common in those who grew up in an abusive family environment..  Bad decisions, self  sabotage, lying, a rage bubbling inside, outbursts, and a distasteful attitude are just a few of the symptoms (and the inability to comprehend how one's behavior comes across to others).. She doesn't act, she reacts, and that's a defense mechanism she learned at a very young age to psychologically survive emotional, physical and/or sexual abuse.  Her reactions won't be consistent with what one might expect, and then at times they will..... the intricate details of what she, herself, and herself only experienced is unique and not up to ANYONE'S judgement.  If there was one person with a clue about how any kind of abuse effects a child later in life, through adulthood and parenthood, these facts would have gotten the judgemental assholes to shut their spew holes.

Mr. Anthony, grandfather to Caylee had his own inappropriate responses and social gaffes..  The creepy "hey beautiful" he said to his daughter in a visit over the jail phone with just the glass between him and his daughter spoke volumes to how INAPPROPRIATE this creep has been with his daughter.  Her natural response was unnerving, but typical.  To giggle nervously like an obedient little girl, accepting his creepiness while rendering it "appropriate" so her own psyche could accept it as perfectly fine, is a defense many girls whose fathers abused them sexually.  Even just flirty talk and sexual innuendos classify as boundary crossing ambient abuse.

The abuse excuse is not viable in a defense for murder, but when the idiocrats have tried and hung a girl based on her actions following the death of her daughter and subsequent emotional reactions or lack there of, it renders the case tainted, null and void and to convict is a break down in the halls of justice.  Maybe if Casey were black, Muslim, or O.J. she'd get off with no charges and run free to start her life over again.  This is not to defend a guilty mother who murdered her baby girl, but a statement against the Public Holier than thou Soapbox Squatters who need to get out in the real world and have some stressful event shake up their world....  like not having their candy wimp asses kissed all day long...  oh the drama, they love to watch, judge criticize and condemn, then the finger isn't pointing back at them..... YET.

Casey Anthony will not be convicted and surely will NOT get Capitol Punishment.

Casey could have had a moment of rage that went terribly wrong, resulting in her daughter's death.  Negligence, and a self absorption that allowed Caylee to fall in the pool and drown, fall, or whatever it was that did her in..    It doesn't add up without some level of doubt that this woman planned and carried out a pre-meditated plan to kill her baby girl.  Her reactions were classic to someone who had been abused at one time.... inappropriate and inexplicable, subject to holier than thou judges, official, and not.  Who are you to say what's appropriate when it comes to traumatic events?  Have you judgemental douchebags ever had PTSD, been abused, or even studied the dynamic?  THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP! This girl, however guilty she may be of not reacting to your standards or neglecting to report her daughter gone, or being too young and emotionally incapable of accepting her reality... It's called DENIAL.. And everyone has their own way of responding to a traumatic atrocious occurrence.

She's guilty of alot, but there is substantial DOUBT in this case that will make the Death Penalty OUT OF THE REALM OF POSSIBILITY!  She is not guilty of Murder One.  Negligent homicide? maybe.. Manslaughter? Still MAYBE.   Lying to authorities, YES.   This case is too complex and too extreme in it's punishment.  Pray for Caylee, little beautiful Caylee, her mother, and her grandparents..

May the powers that be have mercy on the fucking judgemental assholes who haven't a clue.  Hope you all get one, and that it's traumatic, then tell the story.....
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